In adulthood, scapegoating became a way for adult children to hide the fact of family history of abuse by blaming everything on one member who seemed vulnerable for attack. At times the scapegoat targeted by the sibling who was always the favorite of the family. Apr 25, 2015 · As a scapegoat, you are trained to live in fear. You become afraid to defend yourself, express your opinions, or demand fair treatment. This attitude of worthlessness, fear and shame is carried into adult life.
The Narcissistic Parent - makes you the Scapegoat- then picks the "Golden Child" and you become so depressed, have such low self-esteem that you end up as an adult marrying or being in a relationship with an abuser who treats you just like your family of origin does because you don't know what real, genuine love is, because you have never. Jul 15, 2017 · When, in actual fact, the narcissist has set the scapegoat up to fail. This sense of failure continues well into the scapegoat’s adult life when they naturally gravitate towards narcissistic partner’s and friends, who use the same techniques that the narcissistic parent did to scapegoat the family scapegoat. Where the narcissist goes wrong.
Jan 11, 2011 · Thank you for your article.I have just woken up to the fact that I was a family scapegoat.I have been in complete denial because the truth was too painful to accept, however I . Jul 13, 2019 · Family members may align with the narcissist, who is viewed as either the legitimate power broker or a tyrant to be appeased. These narcissist supporters can be the other parent, siblings, their children or even extended family. Lies are perpetrated to encourage family to side against you as the family scapegoat.Author: Glynis Sherwood.